Ten Steps to Create a Better Life
Ten Steps to Create a Better Life There are many ways that you can improve your life. We all want a happy, healthy life. The good news is there's so much information out there within easy reach that can help us do that. However, with so much information things can get complicated so sometimes I just like to step back and look at the bigger picture through a quick checklist. 1. The Truth Always Comes Out You or others may not intentionally admit lying, maybe it just slipped out. Yet lying can leave yourself or others feel embarrassed and hurt that the the truth had not been told to begin with. That’s what lies do. They come out in one way or the other and affect relationships, health, success, and happiness in a very big (and negative) way. And, if they don’t slip out, they are revealed in some other way – either through someone else who knows or by someone figuring out that things just are not adding up with what you are saying. Therefore, remember that the truth is one of those things that cannot be hidden for long, and try to make it something you tell as often as you can. It is always better to tell the truth now than to be found out as a liar later on. 2. What You Think About, You Bring To Life What you think about most, you bring into your life. If you think depressing and losing thoughts, then you will manifest depression and loses into your life. But, if you think happy and winning thoughts, you will manifest happiness and success into your life. Your thoughts determine what you perceive, what you will do, and how much resistance you put up, which all determine how your life goes. For instance, you can’t attract a positive life if you are constantly thinking negative things because you won’t let positive things into your life or even go after the positive things that you want. You won’t see the opportunities when they arise and you won’t do the things to get it. And if you do try, you won’t try hard enough or you will sabotage your efforts in some way. Therefore, focus on thinking more positive, uplifting thoughts about yourself, others, and even the world around you. 3. Stop Fighting Hate With Hate You cannot stop hate by being hateful, it just makes thing worse. You already know this. If you get into an argument with someone, and start yelling at each other, you don’t suddenly feel good about each other; instead, you cause a negative energy between the two of you until you come back together from a place of love and understanding. Then, you eliminate the hate and replace it with love. Therefore, if you have any desire to remove hate from your life, react to it with love now and from this moment forward. 4. Don’t Rush Things You can’t expect to become the best right now. You can’t expect to know everything or even gain a skill quickly. Things take time because each ‘drop’ has to be dropped in order to create a full jug. Sometimes the drops come quickly and sometimes they come slowly, but if you take action and keep moving forward, you will keep filling up your jug and eventually it will be full. 5. Pay Attention To What You Say Don’t let words just spill out of your mouth. It’s easy to do, especially when you are caught up in negative emotions and feel upset or bad. But, your words have a huge amount of power over other people and how they feel about themselves and you. A few negative words only take a few moments to say, but they can stick in another person’s mind for a lifetime.
Therefore, live by the rule "Are your words from a spirit of love or fear?" If they are from fear then simply change the meaning and intention to love. If you have nothing nice to say, then don’t say anything at all! 6. Take Responsibility For Your Life It’s easy to put your ethics and way of life into other people’s hands; then you don’t have to do much work and can blame them for your problems. But, doing so will not get you the life you want or help you behave according to your own inner guidance system.
You know what’s right and what’s wrong, and you have the power to make your own decisions and take your own actions. Do what feels good to you, learn from your mistakes, and be responsible for how your life goes and turns out. 7. There May Be No Tomorrow How many of you say things like, “I’ll start tomorrow”? I know I have many times! But the truth is that tomorrow may not come. It doesn’t matter what your age is, how healthy you are, or how many years you think you have left – you might die tomorrow and not get another chance to start something, take action, or say something.
Don’t waste today waiting for tomorrow that might not come. Focus on the things that matter the most and make sure you do as much towards them as possible. 8. Get Control Of Your Mind Don’t let yourself be pulled here and there by other people; instead, get control of your mind. Decide what you want, find ways to get it, and then discipline your mind to stick with what you are going after instead of being pulled around by shiny objects and people.
A distracted mind never gets anything done, whereas a disciplined mind makes the most of each day. That’s where happiness really lives. When you have the discipline to do and go after what you want, all your dreams get fulfilled. 9. Have Compassion For Everything People who have no compassion for the suffering of other people, animals, or the planet, should not be celebrated and idolized. They should be rejected by the group and pushed aside so that they can’t gain any power or do any harm.
Compassion is the one to focus on regardless of circumstances. For instance, some people are quiet. Some people are lazy. Some people don’t do what they should do. Some people stand behind their uniqueness. Some people are unhappy. Some people are fearful. Those are not people who should be made into an outcast., they need compassion to gain confidence and shine their own light. Compassion is the light to light others. 10. Help Others By Being Strong Yourself Life can be hard. If you want to be an example for others, you have to be strong and not get taken away with the current. A disciplined mind, a strong moral compass, a willingness to learn, curiosity, creativity, optimism, and the strength to choose your own life path and follow it, are all traits of being able to fight the current and lead the way for other people. Don’t expect people to follow your lead in life if you can’t take control of who you are and what you do.
Now see how much your life and relationships expand exponentially and positively , whether with partners, friendships, workmates and simply others around you will change for the better, simply because you are have transformed your words, feeling, responses and actions.
Michael J Robey
Psychic Medium | Psychic Investigator